How To Get A Girl To Like You And Not Look Like A Total Loser


So, you want to know how to get a girl to like you? No matter what age you are or where you live, you know how difficult it is to talk to women. If they were all the same, it would be easy, right?
But since they’re not, you definitely have your work cut out for you. Even though women are all different, there a few things that all of them will appreciate and find attractive. Read on to learn four simple suggestions on how to get a girl to like you.
Pay Attention
Always listen to a girl when she is talking. Yes, females do tend to chatter about a lot of meaningless things, but listen for the important stuff. When she talks about something important, repeat it over in your mind a few times until it sticks. By this time, she’s probably chattering about something not so important.
Later in the conversation, find a creative way to bring up the things you chose to remember. Want some bonus points? Ask her about her feelings toward those things. For example, if she talked about how she wants to be an accountant someday, ask her what made her decide it and why.
Also ask what her career goals are. Not only are you earning points, but you are also able to find out more about how compatible you are, which is important if you’re thinking about a serious relationship.
Share Your Interests
You already know that most girls love to dominate a conversation. But, they will want to hear from you, too. Don’t be shy about sharing your interests. Girls love to talk about themselves, but they also want to know what you’re interested in besides their bodies. This is one of the most important things to remember about how to get a girl to like you–and respect you.
Be A Confident Leader
Men have a natural instinct to be leaders, while women have a natural instinct to desire protection. This is what makes the man/woman combination so perfect. Always show that you’re confident. Avoid being wishy-washy. For example, if she asks where you want to go for dinner, tell her. Don’t say “I don’t know. You pick.” If a woman looks to you for an answer, she wants an answer, not a suggestion or an “I don’t know.” Even if they’re not consciously aware of it, women are much more attracted to a man who is confident and has a strong personality. If a woman says she doesn’t like this about you, take it as a compliment and move on – you definitely don’t want to date that one.
Treat Others Fairly
This may sound strange, but you wouldn’t believe how important this is to women. They will never tell you directly because they are – yes, you guessed it – testing you. How you treat your mom when she calls, service staff at a restaurant or even strangers will tell a girl a lot about your personality. Guys, sometimes you may get short or snappy with other people because you’re nervous. Avoid showing it in front of her though. If you want her to like you, especially if you’re thinking about a long-term relationship, this is very important. You may be thinking it looks macho and she’s impressed, but she could be sizing you up to see what kind of father or husband material you are.